Is boyfriend an abuser....????????

well, here it is: i've been dating my bf for six mnths and we've had a lot of fun together.. he's reliable, generous etc, but has some issues and i don't know how big they'll get. he offered to drive me to my interview which was at 11 am, but i told him it was at 10 because i didn't want him to get me there late as he's done b4. when i told him he lost his temper and started acting mean and said he'll end the relationship forever etc.. i ended up cryin out of frustration and he was still complaining.. he always complains about the perfum i wear, never compliments me when i get my hair done and just seems to always be complainin about something! then after the interview incident he asked me if i met somebody else this weekend cuz i told a lie about my interview being earlier what else i'm i lyin about?? what do u guys think is it me or him?